3 months.
Monday, October 11, 2010
listening to: -
i h.a.t.e. having to take the heat for other people's mistakes and incomptencies. but that seems to be happening a lot these days. the dilemma then lies in whether this points to a way out, or whether it's just a phase and all i have to do is ride it out.
i was told that i'm feeling stretched because i do everything myself. and that i can't seem to let go and delegate and rely on other people. but then, i get my face scratched and yelling in my ear when i do.
so what do i do? tell me.
posted @ 21:03
6 Comments:
delegation is not science.. more art of manipulation. Unfortunately, something certain people purposely mess things up to show how incompetent you are as their leader.. that way, they might have opportunity to take over.
Advice : check out which one in the group seems to have the most influential power. and BE friend with that person.. buy him/her over. hope this helps.
Breathe in, breath out.
And try not to let it get to you....
*hugs*
(Mari kita pergi minum and ber-happy?)
anon: wow. will reserve my comments as this will take too long to explain. in any case, thanks for the advice. now, reveal yourself!!
j: i'm on an alcohol free diet till pw's wedding. =( (maybe that's why i'm grumpy too....)
Sorry if my comment is not good..
:p
Anon - Shirley
hey! no leehhh that's not what i meant! thanks for the advice, really =)
am just not in the habit of positioning myself in that manner =/
thanks again =) see you soon!
:) hope all will get better for u... hugz. **psst..i'll get u some nice chocolate from europe ** ;)
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